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Let's make a plan to your relationship or
This is for you if you...
You don’t need to guess your way through this anymore. I’ll help you create a plan to save your relationship or finally move on and begin dating again!
can't stop thinking about your ex
keep replaying everything, wondering what you could’ve done differently
feel anxious
want to move on, but your heart isn’t ready
don't recognize yourself
are stuck between hope and heartbreak
Feeling Lost After a Breakup? Start Here.
My upcoming book, Ex's and No's: The Breakup Advice You Don't Want to Hear, is a step-by-step roadmap to help you stop spiraling, find peace, and rebuild your confidence — whether your goal is to heal or reconnect.
It’s the same framework I use with my private coaching clients, written for anyone who wants clarity and healing that actually lasts.
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Feeling Lost After a Breakup? Start Here.
My upcoming book, Ex's and No's: The Breakup Advice You Don't Want to Hear, is a step-by-step roadmap to help you stop spiraling, find peace, and rebuild your confidence — whether your goal is to heal or reconnect.
It’s the same framework I use with my private coaching clients, written for anyone who wants clarity and healing that actually lasts.
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Where You Are Now
It’s difficult to go a single day without thinking of them.
Every day feels like an emotional rollercoaster.
You check your phone, hoping they’ve reached out.
You’ve lost your confidence and can’t stop analyzing what went wrong.
Where You Want To Be
You wake up with peace instead of panic.
You finally have clarity on whether to reconcile or move on.
You feel grounded, strong, and ready for whatever’s next.
You’ve rebuilt your confidence, sense of self, and you enjoy living your life.
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HI my name is coach cole!
I help people rebuild their lives after heartbreak — whether that means getting their ex back the right way or learning to let go and building something new.
I’ve helped thousands of people calm their anxiety, stop chasing, and start healing — because I’ve been there myself.
You don’t have to go through this alone. Let’s make a plan that brings you peace again.
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The Breakup to Breakthrough Coaching Program is a 12-week journey to rebuild your confidence, stop obsessive thoughts, and gain clarity — whether you want to heal, reconnect, or finally move on.
This program is for you if you’re ready to stop waiting, stop guessing, and finally take charge of your healing. It’s not a quick fix — it’s for people serious about changing their patterns, emotions, and future relationships. Space is limited because I work closely with each client to make sure they get results.
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Step One:
Use No Contact Effectively
Step Three:
With this newfound clarity, decide whether you want to revisit the relationship or not
Step Two:
Obtain clarity and healing by focusing on attachment styles and building a life you love
Step Four:
Reconcile in a healthy way or move forward with peace and confidence
"working with cole was a tranformative experience for me"
Focusing on the positive aspects of my life, as opposed to the ones that were bringing me down, was exactly what I needed after a breakup. My radar for detecting what I am and am not looking for while dating also significantly approved through working with him. Lastly, the sense of community with the rest of his clients was invaluable to me as we were all experiencing similar feelings and emotions, and that was integral to my healing journey.
- Molly
"cole helped me through an incredibly difficult time"
Going through a breakup and massive life changes, I felt very lost. I'd done traditional therapy, but felt like I needed someone with specific expertise and guidance in this particular area. He was an empathetic listener, an objective voice, and great at guiding me to conclusions that my mind and body already know, but he helped identify. Would highly recommened anyone work with him who wants to make tangible steps forward in their life journeys regarding relationships, attachment styles, and healing.
- Alex
"working with cole has been one of the most impactful decisions i've ever made."
I'm so impressed and grateful that our paths crossed. He has an incredible ability to break down relationships in a way that is both clear and compassionate, helping me understand not only dynamics of my past but also the tools I need moving forward. If you're looking for someone who can help you navigate relationships with wisdom and honesty, while also empowering you to become the best version of yourself, I can't recommend Cole enough.
- Mark
"wish 20 stars was an option"
Coach Cole is so kind, and insightful. I have been going through so much pain, and he gave very clear perspective on what happened in my breakup. I know that it isn't my fault that I have an anxious attachment style, but it is my responsibility to grow from it. Thank you for your clear guidance, Cole!
- Michael
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beyond the breakup
Follow this path for your best chance at saving your relationship!
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finding me after we
Rebuild your identity and confidence after heartbreak.
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text your ex guide
Learn exactly how to reconnect without losing your power.
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5 stages of a breakup
Understand where you are, where your ex is, and what comes next.
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Healing doesn’t have to wait.
Choose a course that fits your stage — and start rebuilding today.
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