Our 12-week coaching process helps you calm your mind, rebuild your confidence, and create the life you want to attract your ex or someone new!
You don’t have to chase, overthink, or wonder what went wrong anymore.
Here's the renewal framework
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The Breakup to Breakthrough Coaching Program is a 12-week journey to rebuild your confidence, stop obsessive thoughts, and gain clarity — whether you want to heal, reconnect, or finally move on.
Step One:
Use No Contact Effectively
Step Three:
With this newfound clarity, decide whether you want to revisit the relationship or not
Step Two:
Obtain clarity and healing by focusing on attachment styles and building a life you love
Step Four:
Reconcile in a healthy way or move forward with peace and confidence
I’ve helped thousands of people navigate heartbreak, stop anxious chasing, and rebuild secure, confident lives. I created the Renewal Framework after my own painful breakup, and I now use it to help people heal and reconnect from a place of strength and peace.
Founder & Head Coach
Coach Cole Zesiger
Carly is known for her warmth, structure, and grounded support. She helps clients calm emotional spirals, stop anxious patterns, and rebuild confidence — whether reconciliation happens or not.
Breakup & Attachment Recovery Coach
Coach Carly Kaplan
What's Included in Coaching
A personalized healing plan built around your situation
Eight 1-on-1 calls
Access to The Healing Project community
The full 12-week Breakup to Breakthrough video course
Accountability check-ins and progress tracking
Texting access for in-the-moment support
You’re ready to stop waiting, stop guessing, and finally take charge of your healing.
It’s not a quick fix — it’s for people serious about changing their patterns, emotions, and future relationships.
Space is limited because I work closely with each client to make sure they get results.
this is for you if
You’re ready to stop waiting, stop guessing, and finally take charge of your healing.
It’s not a quick fix — it’s for people serious about changing their patterns, emotions, and future relationships.
Space is limited because I work closely with each client to make sure they get results.
this is for you if
im ready
You’ve Spent Enough Time Hurting. It’s Time to Heal.
transform your life
Whether you want your ex back or you just want peace, you deserve clarity, confidence, and emotional freedom again.
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"working with cole was a tranformative experience for me"
Focusing on the positive aspects of my life, as opposed to the ones that were bringing me down, was exactly what I needed after a breakup. My radar for detecting what I am and am not looking for while dating also significantly approved through working with him. Lastly, the sense of community with the rest of his clients was invaluable to me as we were all experiencing similar feelings and emotions, and that was integral to my healing journey.
- Molly
"cole helped me through an incredibly difficult time"
Going through a breakup and massive life changes, I felt very lost. I'd done traditional therapy, but felt like I needed someone with specific expertise and guidance in this particular area. He was an empathetic listener, an objective voice, and great at guiding me to conclusions that my mind and body already know, but he helped identify. Would highly recommened anyone work with him who wants to make tangible steps forward in their life journeys regarding relationships, attachment styles, and healing.
- Alex
"working with cole has been one of the most impactful decisions i've ever made."
I'm so impressed and grateful that our paths crossed. He has an incredible ability to break down relationships in a way that is both clear and compassionate, helping me understand not only dynamics of my past but also the tools I need moving forward. If you're looking for someone who can help you navigate relationships with wisdom and honesty, while also empowering you to become the best version of yourself, I can't recommend Cole enough.
- Mark
"wish 20 stars was an option"
Coach Cole is so kind, and insightful. I have been going through so much pain, and he gave very clear perspective on what happened in my breakup. I know that it isn't my fault that I have an anxious attachment style, but it is my responsibility to grow from it. Thank you for your clear guidance, Cole!
- Michael
Frequently Asked Questions
how do i know if i'm a good fit?
If you're ready to stop feeling stuck, overthinking, or emotionally drained — and you're willing to take real steps toward peace or reconciliation — you'll get a lot out of this program.
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How is this different from therapy?
Therapy focuses on processing the past; this program focuses on practical tools, emotional regulation, and step-by-step guidance to move forward. Many clients do both and find that this complements therapy extremely well.
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What happens on the call?
You’ll speak with a member of my team who will help you get clarity, answer your questions, and determine which coaching option fits you best.
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How much time does it take?
Plan for about 1-2 hours per week for lessons and journaling, plus any one-on-one calls if included in your package.
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how long until i start feeling better?
Most clients report noticeable emotional relief and more control within the first 1-2 weeks once they implement the plan. Deeper healing and transformation typically happen over the full 12-week process.
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do you guarantee my ex will come back?
No one can promise that — and anyone who does isn't being honest. What i can promise is that you'll learn exactly how to handle things in a way that maximizes your chances of reconciliation and ensures you come out stronger either way.
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what if i've begged or over-texted?
You're not alone, most of my clietns have. The first step of the program is designed to reset the dynamic and rebuild your sense of calm and control.
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