Meet coach cole zesiger
I became a breakup coach after going through my own divorce and breakup 3 years ago. I was crushed and decided to dedicate my life to learning how relationships work to avoid going through that kind of pain again and to help as many people as I could avoid it too.
Eventually, my wife Jocelyn, who was also divorced before we met, watched some of my videos and reached out to me. We were married in 2023 and had our first baby in 2024. I do my best to apply everything I coach others through in our marriage.
Since becoming a coach, I have worked one-on-one with over 2000 people from all corners of the world and ranging from 18 to 72 years old. I have seen what helps people get back together and what keeps them apart. I’ve also seen what helps people move on and what keeps them stuck.
If we work together, I can promise you that I won’t deliver any false hope. I will be honest and do my best to help you through your heartbreak using the tools I’ve learned. You don’t have to do this alone!
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Hey I'm Cole!
Here's my journey...
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2018
I got married young and thought I had everything figured out.
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2021
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2022
2000+ clients later, my life’s mission is to help heal heartbreak and avoid the pain and mistakes I went through!
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2023
After studying nonstop and starting my coaching business, I met and married my wife Jocelyn.
After 10 months, she left me too and I determined to learn all I could to never go through this again.
My wife left me and I was absolutely crushed. One month later— I tried to ignore the pain by jumping into another relationship.
2025
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"working with cole was a tranformative experience for me"
Focusing on the positive aspects of my life, as opposed to the ones that were bringing me down, was exactly what I needed after a breakup. My radar for detecting what I am and am not looking for while dating also significantly approved through working with him. Lastly, the sense of community with the rest of his clients was invaluable to me as we were all experiencing similar feelings and emotions, and that was integral to my healing journey.
- Molly
"cole helped me through an incredibly difficult time"
Going through a breakup and massive life changes, I felt very lost. I'd done traditional therapy, but felt like I needed someone with specific expertise and guidance in this particular area. He was an empathetic listener, an objective voice, and great at guiding me to conclusions that my mind and body already know, but he helped identify. Would highly recommened anyone work with him who wants to make tangible steps forward in their life journeys regarding relationships, attachment styles, and healing.
- Alex
"working with cole has been one of the most impactful decisions i've ever made."
I'm so impressed and grateful that our paths crossed. He has an incredible ability to break down relationships in a way that is both clear and compassionate, helping me understand not only dynamics of my past but also the tools I need moving forward. If you're looking for someone who can help you navigate relationships with wisdom and honesty, while also empowering you to become the best version of yourself, I can't recommend Cole enough.
- Mark
"wish 20 stars was an option"
Coach Cole is so kind, and insightful. I have been going through so much pain, and he gave very clear perspective on what happened in my breakup. I know that it isn't my fault that I have an anxious attachment style, but it is my responsibility to grow from it. Thank you for your clear guidance, Cole!
- Michael
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