Self-paced DIY courses
Heal at your
own pace.
Four DIY courses built from the Renewal Framework — the same system in my book Ex's & No's and in every private coaching engagement. Pick the one that fits where you are right now — they all stand alone.
$9 to $149 · Lifetime access · No subscription · 2,000+ clients coached
- $9
5 Stages Your Ex Goes Through After a Breakup
Finally understand what your ex is going through.
Best for
Confused about what your ex is feeling.
What's inside
- → Why your ex was so cold at the time of the breakup
- → How they're most likely to reach out to you
- → How to handle the first meetup for your best shot
- $27
Text Your Ex Back Guide
Turn an ex's reach-out into a second chance — without losing your power.
Best for
About to text — or already did and don't know what to do.
What's inside
- → Video trainings on the psychology of why your ex may reach out
- → PDF with 20 of the most common texts + copy-paste answers
- → The peace of mind knowing you're ready for whatever happens
- $147 $297 50% off
Beyond the Breakup
Your best chance at saving the relationship — built around the full Renewal Framework.
Best for
Trying to save what you had, the right way.
What's inside
- → Video trainings on each phase of reconciliation
- → Lifetime access — revisit any time the spiral comes back
- $149
Finding Me After We (Finally Move On)
Move on for real. Find yourself again.
Best for
Done waiting. Ready to actually rebuild yourself.
What's inside
- → Video trainings to stop obsessing and overthinking
- → Downloadable workbook with step-by-step exercises
- → Lifetime access — yours forever
From a course student
"I found Cole's course about 10 weeks after my boyfriend of 13 years broke up with me. His advice on how I was feeling — and how my ex may be feeling — helped so much. It helped me see this was not about me being 'less than.' You ARE enough."
Not sure which one?
Pick the one that matches where your head is right now.
- "I keep wondering what they're feeling." — Start with 5 Stages of a Breakup ($9) .
- "I'm about to text them — or I just did." — Get the Text Your Ex Back Guide ($27) .
- "I want to do everything I can to save it." — Go through Beyond the Breakup ($147) .
- "I'm done waiting. I need to actually move on." — Work through Finding Me After We ($149) .
Want a real plan instead?
Some things move faster
1:1.
Courses are built for people who want to walk this themselves. If you'd rather have someone walk it with you, that's what coaching is for.