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5.0★ across every
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Real names. Real outcomes. Pulled directly from the public Google Business profile — read them there if you want the whole picture.

From a recent client who finished the program

★★★★★

"Working with Cole and his heartbreak program was one of the most transformative experiences of my life. I joined in December 2025 and completed the program in March 2026, and in those three months, I grew significantly into the man I always knew I could be. Cole helped me do more than just get over a breakup, he helped me uncover the core wounds I had buried and compounded bad habits on top of for years. There's nothing clean about doing this kind of work. It's messy, like picking up a shovel and digging into your past. But Cole gave me the tools to not only uncover those hidden wounds, but to process them and move forward. Through our work together, I learned so much about my own attachment style, built a healthier relationship with my emotions, and became more emotionally intelligent and vulnerable. He guided me in building a life that I get genuine fulfillment from. I cannot recommend a better coach."
— Tyler England · a week ago

5.0★

Google rating

2,000+

Clients coached

750K+

Social followers

4.9★

Book rating on Amazon

In their own words

Video reviews from clients.

Real clients talking about the work — unscripted.

  • Tyler's review

    On the 3-month transformation arc — what changed and how.

  • John's review

    On the work itself, in his own words.

A few of the reviews

What clients actually say.

A few — picked for variety. Read more at the link below.

  • ★★★★★ 3 months ago

    "Cole was AMAZING to work with. He helped me through a really difficult breakup and made the entire process feel manageable and empowering. He is incredibly knowledgeable and has a great way of explaining how the brain works during heartbreak, why certain feelings come up, and how to work through them in a healthy way. What I appreciated most was how practical and insightful his approach was he gave me exercises that truly helped me understand myself better, reflect on patterns, and learn tools I’ll use for the rest of my life. Whether the goal is repairing a relationship or moving on, he explains both paths clearly and compassionately. On top of all of that, Cole is so easy and fun to talk to. Every session left me feeling lighter, clearer, and more confident in my healing. I’m extremely grateful for his support and would highly recommend him to anyone going through a breakup or major life transition."

    — Katelyn Hogg

  • ★★★★★ 7 months ago

    "Working with Cole has been one of the most impactful decisions I’ve ever made. I’m so impressed and grateful that our paths crossed. He has an incredible ability to break down relationships in a way that is both clear and compassionate, helping me understand not only the dynamics of my past but also the tools I need moving forward. If you’re looking for someone who can help you navigate relationships with wisdom and honesty, while also empowering you to become the best version of yourself, I can’t recommend Cole enough."

    — Mark Cardillo

  • ★★★★★ a year ago

    "I recently had the privilege of meeting with Coach Cole during a very difficult time. I was heartbroken, but from the very first moment, he created a safe and supportive environment where I felt completely at ease. His ability to listen attentively, combined with his compassionate and caring nature, truly set him apart. I felt heard and understood in a way that brought a sense of relief and hope. Coach Cole didn’t shy away from being brutally honest, yet he delivered his insights with empathy, which made the experience both transformative and uplifting. I walked away from our session feeling grateful for his honesty, guidance, and I would absolutely meet with him again for another one-on-one. His approach is one that not only helps you face the truth but also empowers you to move forward. Highly recommend!"

    — Lisa Chan

  • ★★★★★ 11 months ago

    "Cole helped me through an incredibly difficult time - going thru a breakup and massive life changes, I felt very lost. I’d done traditional therapy, but felt like I needed someone with specific expertise and guidance in this particular area. He was an empathetic listener, an objective voice, and great at guiding me to conclusions that my mind and body already knew, but he helped identify. Would highly recommend anyone work with him who wants to make tangible steps forward in their life journeys regarding relationships, attachment styles, and healing."

    — Alex Potter

  • ★★★★★ a year ago

    "Cole created such a warm and welcoming environment the moment we hopped on a call. I’ve never worked with a relationship coach before, and was really seeking clarity on my situation on how I should handle the next steps. Cole took the time to get to know my story and took a genuine interest in who I am and what my relationship goals are. He listened as he noted down some key points and gave his expert opinion on what he thought happened so I had clarity and confirmation on what I had already anticipated happened with my situation. He asked me the hard questions and made me really think about the ideal person I pictured in my life, gave me a blueprint for the best way to not only attract an ex back (if I still wanted him), but also a path to being the very best version of myself. Cole was so approachable and friendly! Sometimes you just need to hear confirmation or get clarity on your situation so you can stop ruminating over it with your friends, for the hundred billionth time! 😂"

    — Christian Johnson

  • ★★★★★ 8 months ago

    "Working with Cole was a transformative experience for me. Focusing on the positive aspects of my life, as opposed to the ones that were bringing me down, was exactly what I needed after my breakup. My radar for detecting what I am and am not looking for while dating also significantly approved through working with him. Lastly, the sense of community with the rest of his clients was invaluable to me as we were all experiencing similar feelings and emotions, and that was integral to my healing journey."

    — Molly Ottensoser

  • ★★★★★ a year ago

    "I can't say enough positive things about Cole! I came to him during one of the most challenging times in my life—a painful breakup—and his support and guidance made an incredible difference. I did two sessions with him and from the very first session, he was personable, compassionate, and genuine in his approach. He created a safe space where I could openly share my emotions without judgment. His thoughtful insights, guidance, and advice helped me gain clarity, process my feelings, and provided a plan for me to move forward. He didn’t just tell me what I wanted to hear—he guided me with honesty and empathy. What stood out most was his genuine care and investment in me and the way in which he approached the situation. I always felt heard and understood. Thanks to his guidance, I was able to navigate my breakup with a healthier mindset and begin the process of moving on. If you're looking for someone who truly cares and has the tools to help you through life's toughest moments, I highly recommend Cole!"

    — Joshua

  • ★★★★★ 6 months ago

    "I found Cole through his Instagram posts and working with him has been more than I could have hoped for. When I reached out to Cole I was in such a state of heartbreak and despair with the ending of a 26 year marriage. He helped me recognize the Parts and Roles in my life and marriage, how to forgive my ex husband and myself. He helped me find tools and insights to acknowledge that some relationships have an end and that it is OK to accept that fact. He inspired me to connect with myself and to take the darkness and hollow pit of a future and turn into something I can see now. Where all I saw was a dark pit of despair I now see excitement and light to move forward and that I can do it! Cole has a great spiritual faith and he helped me to connect with God and with that I have found a peace and comfort that I could not find before working with him. His Online Platform will continue to be a great resource to use as I continue the work in this next chapter of my life. His thought provoking questions and homework helped me dig deep to uncover a way to move forward. I could not be more happy with my progress and where I am now compared to where I was when I started is amazing."

    — Nikie Stookey

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When clients work with Brooklyn.

The reviews above are from clients who worked with me directly. These are from clients who walked the same 12-week container with Brooklyn, one of my trained team coaches.

  • ★★★★★ Coached by Brooklyn

    "The coaching experience was excellent. After my engagement unexpectedly came to an abrupt end I felt like my world was spinning and I was struggling to make sense of any of it and how to rebuild. Going through this process allowed me to better assess what happened and start beginning to heal. The coach I worked with, Brooklyn, was kind and honest throughout the process — I would highly recommend."

    — Will Bruno · May 2026

  • ★★★★★ Coached by Brooklyn

    "This program was completely transformative for me. Over the three months, I experienced a level of healing and personal growth that I didn't even know I was capable of. The work we did feels entirely substantial and lasting. Brooklyn was incredibly tuned in to my story and what I was actually working toward, and she met me where I was every step of the way. Her warmth and compassion helped me feel safe enough to be vulnerable and authentic. Each session felt thoughtful, flexible, and tailored to what I needed in that moment. Her insights helped me see dating and myself from a much clearer, more compassionate perspective. I came away with more confidence, self-trust, and clarity than I've had in a long time. I can't recommend Brooklyn or this program highly enough. It was truly worth the investment."

    — Jenny Freitag · May 2026

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Also from book readers.

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