Finding Me After We
Move on for real this time.
Not the version where you white-knuckle three good weeks and then one memory undoes all of it. The version where you actually heal — and come out of this more yourself than you went in.
Video trainings · step-by-step workbook · lifetime access
If this is you
You're not failing to move on. You were never shown how.
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You keep checking their socials even though it wrecks you every time.
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You replay the relationship on a loop, hunting for the moment it broke.
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Somewhere inside the “we,” you lost track of who you were.
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You've “moved on” before — and then one song, one photo, one memory pulled you back under.
The hard truth
Time alone does not heal the pain of losing someone.
If it did, you'd be healed by now. What time actually does on its own is teach you to live around the wound — which is why one memory can still pull you under months later.
Healing is work with a direction: interrupt the loops, grieve the real loss, and rebuild the identity that got absorbed into the relationship. That's what this course walks you through, step by step — the same work I do with private clients, at your own pace.
Inside the course
What you'll work through.
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Stop the obsessing and overthinking
Video trainings on the loops that keep you stuck — the replay, the what-ifs, the 2 a.m. spiral — and the specific tools that interrupt them. Time alone does not heal this. Tools do.
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Do the work, not just the reading
A downloadable workbook with step-by-step exercises, because moving on is something you do, not something you wait for. Each section turns the training into action you can take this week.
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Rebuild the person the relationship absorbed
At least half of everything good in that relationship was you. This is where you get that person back — not as a performance for your ex, but as the foundation for whatever comes next.
Why I care
I had to find myself twice.
After my divorce, I tried to numb the pain with another relationship. About a year later, she left too. Two breakups deep, I finally understood: I wasn't grieving one person — I was missing the version of me I'd handed over to being half of something.
Rebuilding that person is what changed everything — including, eventually, meeting and marrying the love of my life. Across 2,000+ coaching calls since, it's the same turning point I watch every client reach. This course is that turning point, made walkable.
You're not at the end
You're in the
front row.
The next chapter of your life is about to start. This is how you show up for it as yourself.
$149
One-time payment · lifetime access
Still in the first raw weeks? Start with the free 30-Day No Contact Challenge — this course will be here when you're steadier.